8/16/2023 0 Comments Shannan watts![]() Then, contrast this with repetitive seeking of external emotional validation, frustration when she didn't receive it, her own over the top declarations of emotion, the love letters, the odd fixation on CW workout habits (speaks to personal insecurity imo). All the comments about her wearing the pants, being the dominant one, needing things her way or the highway, stating awareness that she belittled and emasculated her husband, etc. So, first thing that red flagged for me with SW. I'm going to break this down from a PD perspective, please see my NK comment for background. ![]() The big standout that everyone seems to ask about, but few answers add up imo. Ok, I talked about NK, but SW also had some "interesting" behaviours in all of this. I can comment in the one on NK if anyone is interested. I have thoughts on CW himself of course, but that's another post for another time. I think there were many things that contributed to create a "perfect storm" situation, and certainly more than one person exhibited some strong traits of disordered or maladaptive coping. I'm just someone who is interested in personality disorders, who works with primarily personality disordered individuals, and there are a number of things about this case that stand out to me from that perspective. I am not victim blaming SW, nor do I think she "brought it on herself" or any such nonsense. ![]() Let me be clear on that point before anything else though. Ok, so this was actually a response on a thread in the CW sub, a follow-up to a previous one I had written up about NK, but apparently the rules in there changed and we can no longer discuss potential mental health factors, or really anything that may come off as "victim blaming" towards SW.
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